Why Eva Mendes Quit Her Career in Hollywood – The Reason Points to Ryan Gosling

• In an unexpected turn of events, Hollywood’s beloved star, Eva Mendes, decided to bid goodbye to her illustrious acting career.
• Known for her captivating performances and undeniable talent, Mendes’ sudden retreat from the spotlight left her fans and followers stunned and curious.
• The reason behind this significant career shift, as it appears, is intricately tied to her personal life with her long-time partner and the father of her children, the renowned actor Ryan Gosling.

Since Eva Mendes departed from the limelight, she has been notably absent from the red carpet. She often leaves her partner, Ryan Gosling, to walk it alone. This was particularly evident on March 10, during the 2024 Oscars.

While Gosling attended the event, Mendes stayed backstage. A post she shared on Instagram captured Mendes standing outside Gosling’s dressing room. It was accompanied by a caption, “Always by my man.”

This unusual dynamic has sparked a flurry of speculation and concern among internet users. Some suggest that Gosling’s A-list status and younger age have led to his career taking precedence over Mendes’. They question why Mendes doesn’t accompany Gosling on the red carpet if she wants to show their relationship publicly.

Others express concern about Mendes’ financial security as a stay-at-home mom, especially since she and Gosling are unmarried. This could potentially leave her without alimony in the event of a separation.

Mendes’ absence from awards and events before the Oscars has led to speculation that she and Gosling might be living separately. Some comments suggest that the dynamics of their relationship, as portrayed in the media, give off controlling vibes.

Some users have expressed doubts about the longevity of their relationship, with some suggesting that Gosling doesn’t seem as invested in the relationship as Mendes. Other users have raised questions about the normalcy of Mendes avoiding public award-giving occasions with Gosling, her nominated partner.

One user commented, “Maybe behind closed doors things are super smooth sailing but have a feeling now that the kids are getting older she’s not feeling quite so secure with things. Went from being very private to suddenly giving interviews and defining their roles. Time will tell.”

Amid the whirlwind of speculation, Mendes has provided some insight into her decision to step away from Hollywood. She described a mutual understanding between her and Gosling, where both would continue to work, but in different capacities.

Mendes chose to focus on her family, transitioning from acting to being a full-time parent. This decision, she explained, was a “no-brainer” as it allowed her to spend more time with her children while still maintaining a career away from the camera. Mendes also expressed her admiration for Gosling’s work ethic.

She fondly recalls their shared experience on the set of The Place Beyond the Pines,” where they first met. Expressing awe at Gosling’s commitment to his craft, she said, “I have never experienced anything like that. The way he works, his commitment to his craft… But unfortunately — or fortunately — there is only one Ryan.”

While Gosling continues to make movies, Mendes has taken a step back from acting. She has instead chosen to focus on their two daughters, Esmeralda Amada and Amada Lee. Despite this shift, Mendes still supports Gosling’s career, even sharing her thoughts on his memorable performance at the 2024 Oscars.

Mendes explained the Instagram post she made urging Gosling to “come home” to “put the kids to bed.” The post she made the same day she was seen outside Gosling’s dressing room encapsulates their relationship dynamic. She explained, “You go, you do your job the best you can and then you come home.”

In essence, Mendes’ journey from Hollywood to home paints a picture of a woman who has embraced new roles and responsibilities, all while remaining deeply connected to her partner, Gosling. While she chose to support Gosling from behind the scenes at the Oscars, it was Gosling’s sister, Mandi, who accompanied him on the red carpet.

This sparked headlines, with many outlets noting Mendes’ absence and referring to her as Gosling’s “wife.” This public perception of their relationship may have been fueled by Mendes wearing a gold band on her ring finger. One sighting was in February 2020 when she spoke at an event called “Create & Cultivate.”

The ring was also visible in November 2023, when she shared a video of herself petting a horse. Despite Mendes’ absence from the red carpet, she has made it clear that she is Gosling’s biggest cheerleader. Gosling himself has shared how Mendes and their daughters have been his sounding board, offering him advice for his performance at the Oscars.

He shared, “They are such a huge part of this for me… it was my girls’ interest in Barbie and disinterest in Ken that got me into this in the first place. It was beautiful to have them there at the end.” Adding to the intrigue, Mendes has a tattoo that reads, “De Gosling” on her forearm, hinting at their deep personal bond.

Mendes has previously addressed her decision to avoid the red carpet with Gosling. In an April 2023 post featuring footage from their 2012 film “Place Beyond The Pines,” she wrote, “Magic is Real. We did not meet on set. The magic started way before, but here’s a little magic captured on camera.”

In response to a fan’s comment expressing hope to see Mendes with Gosling during the Awards Season, Mendes clarified their approach to public appearances. She responded, “What a cool comment; thank you. But we don’t do those things together… Like these photos I’ve been posting, I’m only comfortable posting because it’s already out there.”

This indicates that Mendes prefers to keep their relationship private and separate from their professional lives. She further clarified, “Oh wait – for those who may catch me in a ‘lie’ – we only were on the red carpet together once when promoting this film.”

On the other hand, Gosling has never held back with public declarations of love for Mendes. In a 2015 interview, he stated unequivocally, “I know that I’m with the person I’m supposed to be with,” adding that the only quality he looks for in a woman is “that she’s Eva Mendes.”

In 2016, when asked about his thoughts on the 3:1 girl-to-boy ratio in his house, he described it as “heaven,” likening it to “walking through a field of flowers every day.” He added, “I live with angels. It’s like a ray of sunshine in a dark time, honestly.”

Gosling’s heartfelt speech at the 2017 Golden Globes further highlighted his deep appreciation and admiration for Mendes. He thanked her for managing their home and caring for their family while he was filming “La La Land.”

He acknowledged her efforts in raising their daughter while she was pregnant with their second child and helping her brother fight his battle with cancer. He said, “If she hadn’t taken all that on so that I could have this experience, it would surely be someone else up here other than me today. Sweetheart, thank you.”

Later on the red carpet, Gosling gushed about his family life, saying, “All the cliches are true. It’s a dream and they are angels.” During the Los Angeles premiere of the film “Barbie” last year, Gosling subtly honored Mendes.

He donned a pastel-pink suit by Gucci and accessorized with a pendant bearing the initial “E” in the iconic Barbie font. On the red carpet, he affirmed that the pendant was a tribute to Mendes, serving as a symbol of his profound personal dedication to her.

The glimpses into the private life of Mendes and Gosling are rare and precious, much like the few real-life family photos that offer a peek into their world away from the spotlight. These snapshots capture moments of love, joy, and everyday life, painting a picture of a family that values privacy and cherishes their time together.

Mendes and Gosling have managed to strike a delicate balance between their public personas and their private life. They have navigated the challenges of fame while maintaining a strong bond and a stable family life.

Their story is a testament to their commitment to each other and their children, demonstrating that it’s possible to find a balance between professional aspirations and personal happiness. In the glare of the spotlight, they’ve made personal choices that prioritize family and love over fame.

Mendes’ decision to step away from Hollywood to focus on her family, and Gosling’s public declarations of love and appreciation for Mendes, speak volumes about their values and their dedication to each other.